Join us for a special community screening of this award-winning documentary. 

The film will be followed by a panel discussion and Q&A with esteemed guests and community leaders: 

Mark Wynn, Film Participant;  Kirsten Kelly, Filmmaker;  Randy Carroll - Bellingham PD Police Chief (RET);  Claudia Murphy- Bellingham PD Lt.;  Susan Marks - Exec. Dir. Commission on Sexual Assault and DV;  Claudia Ackerman - Advocate DVSAS;  Advocate Lummi Tribal Victims of Crime Family Svcs. Moderated by Dr. Shannon Meyer, PhD.  Psychologist.

Bellingham Sunrise Rotary Foundation

Part quest for justice. Part journey towards healing. Decorated Nashville cop Mark Wynn wrestles with his own violent childhood while working to reform decades of domestic violence mishandling, cover-ups, and abuse from deep within law enforcement. “I lived with a monster. I know how this works.” Lt. Mark Wynn challenges fellow police officers to end generations of disregard and systemic failures around domestic violence. 

Part quest for justice. Part journey towards healing. Decorated Nashville cop Mark Wynn wrestles with his own violent childhood while working to reform decades of domestic violence mishandling, cover-ups, and abuse from deep within law enforcement.

“I lived with a monster. I know how this works.” Lt. Mark Wynn challenges fellow police officers to end generations of disregard and systemic failures around domestic violence. While training officers in rural Texas, Mark revisits his childhood home for the first time since he escaped as a child and confronts his family’s traumatic past. How was he able to break the cycle of violence that traps so many men?

With access to sensitive police trainings, the film explores the complex relationship between police and family violence. By revealing his own haunting childhood, Mark challenges other men to stand up and reform the system to better help women and children. “Men create 98% of these crimes – it’s up to us to stop the violence.”

Bringing together the Producers, Impact Producers and Filmmakers from The Homestretch, Audrey & Daisy, Private Violence and Bully, this project brings a unique depth to the dialogue around police reform and challenges perceptions of violence against women and children.

This Is Where I Learned Not To Sleep